2016-2017 was a wavering year for me. Wavering as in I had no idea what exactly it was I wanted. I'd say stuff but you'd hear in my voice the unsureness of my resolve - at least I did. Had no idea how to stick with my choices and that was because I wanted to make people happy, Your girls plan was to be on so many people's good book. I wanted to please, Baby girl was on a journey to please family, strangers, friends - I just had to be liked Lol Good ol' Elsie😄 Don't know exactly how or when it happened but one day I just snapped out of it. I guess this is what motivational speakers call "Growth". Was it because I was tired???? Maybe be I'd find out someday but at this very moment I have no idea how it happened. It was a gradual process but let me tell you how I realized I was doing it, how I was making that personal progress . My mum (beautiful lady) she asked me for something which apparently I casually refused (looking back I would have jumped into